Comments on: Is it easy to deal with divorce? http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce Positive Peaceful Communication Is Possible Thu, 09 Sep 2010 09:45:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Diva Catherine http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-831 Diva Catherine Mon, 15 Feb 2010 21:47:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-831 It will get better in time if you surround yourself with loving people who can encourage you. You may want to join a support group. Support groups are very beneficial.....I would especially recommend one from your church or one that has a good reputation. Do your research before joining any group. Do not let your mind dwell on the negative or you will end up a wreck. I was molested when I was a child and it was painful, but I had to rise above the hurt and pain and not give up on myself. Being a religious person really helped me cope with the pain and hurt. Today, the hurt and pain is gone and I feel so good about myself. I am now helping other men and women who have been through what I went through. Love your mother and father equally and pray for them. Take care of yourself....don't ever give up on yourself!<br><b>References : </b><br>Experience It will get better in time if you surround yourself with loving people who can encourage you.
You may want to join a support group. Support groups are very beneficial…..I would especially recommend one from your church or one that has a good reputation. Do your research before joining any group.
Do not let your mind dwell on the negative or you will end up a wreck. I was molested when I was a child and it was painful, but I had to rise above the hurt and pain and not give up on myself. Being a religious person really helped me cope with the pain and hurt. Today, the hurt and pain is gone and I feel so good about myself. I am now helping other men and women who have been through what I went through.

Love your mother and father equally and pray for them.

Take care of yourself….don’t ever give up on yourself!
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]]> By: Dr. Hammy http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-830 Dr. Hammy Mon, 15 Feb 2010 21:13:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-830 It is almost never easy. It is going to depend on what kind of people your parents are. My first ex wife and I do not get along at all. She is a difficult person and in my opinion, she is still very angry that I left. She caused more than enough problems when it came to our child and my relationship. My second ex wife and I get along great. We talk a couple times a week and almost never disagree regarding anything with our child.<br><b>References : </b><br> It is almost never easy. It is going to depend on what kind of people your parents are. My first ex wife and I do not get along at all. She is a difficult person and in my opinion, she is still very angry that I left. She caused more than enough problems when it came to our child and my relationship. My second ex wife and I get along great. We talk a couple times a week and almost never disagree regarding anything with our child.
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]]> By: jm131 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-829 jm131 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 20:54:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-829 Yes, it will. Its always a hard adjustment to make at first, but once things settle down they are often better than before. If the divorce was what both parents wanted, they will usually be happier apart and in turn they wont stress their children out so much by arguing all the time. And even if the parents are still angry at each other after the divorce, they will usually get over it in time and things will be more peaceful. Take care and remember that the divorce has nothing to do with you or how your parents feel about you!<br><b>References : </b><br> Yes, it will. Its always a hard adjustment to make at first, but once things settle down they are often better than before. If the divorce was what both parents wanted, they will usually be happier apart and in turn they wont stress their children out so much by arguing all the time. And even if the parents are still angry at each other after the divorce, they will usually get over it in time and things will be more peaceful.

Take care and remember that the divorce has nothing to do with you or how your parents feel about you!
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]]> By: eboni W http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-828 eboni W Mon, 15 Feb 2010 20:15:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-828 my stepmom and dad got a divorce and it was a long process both of them had get out the house because i was fore clousure<br><b>References : </b><br> my stepmom and dad got a divorce and it was a long process both of them had get out the house because i was fore clousure
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]]> By: Rob Y http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-827 Rob Y Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:45:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-827 ya it hurts at first but after you just relax you kinda forget about it, you will never be the same but it is change for the better. and dont worry its not just you every one is getting devorced. my parents fought for 4 years until they got devorced, so be happy the fighting is over and move on.<br><b>References : </b><br> ya it hurts at first but after you just relax you kinda forget about it, you will never be the same but it is change for the better. and dont worry its not just you every one is getting devorced. my parents fought for 4 years until they got devorced, so be happy the fighting is over and move on.
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]]> By: ataylr_14@yahoo.com http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-826 ataylr_14@yahoo.com Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:36:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-826 It might. it's hardest tho when one of them finds someone else. u may think it'd b hard it that new person is mean, but it's actually worse when they're nice, because u want to hate them but u have no bttr reason to then u just want ur parents together again.<br><b>References : </b><br>My friends and sisters. It might. it’s hardest tho when one of them finds someone else. u may think it’d b hard it that new person is mean, but it’s actually worse when they’re nice, because u want to hate them but u have no bttr reason to then u just want ur parents together again.
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]]> By: carterj1018 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-825 carterj1018 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:07:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-825 I'm so sorry for you. I was 13 yrs old when my parents divorced. I'm 39 yrs old now with kids of my own and sometimes it's still hard. As long as they are nice to one another and don't put you in the middle - it'll be different but it'll be fine. Be sure to share your feelings with them both. When you're with one of them and they begin to tear down the other one (if they do this) tell them that you understand they are going through a hard time but you love them both and you'd rather they not talk negatively about the other one. It's hard on everyone but it does get somewhat better.<br><b>References : </b><br> I’m so sorry for you. I was 13 yrs old when my parents divorced. I’m 39 yrs old now with kids of my own and sometimes it’s still hard. As long as they are nice to one another and don’t put you in the middle – it’ll be different but it’ll be fine. Be sure to share your feelings with them both. When you’re with one of them and they begin to tear down the other one (if they do this) tell them that you understand they are going through a hard time but you love them both and you’d rather they not talk negatively about the other one. It’s hard on everyone but it does get somewhat better.
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]]> By: Descartes http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-824 Descartes Mon, 15 Feb 2010 18:20:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-824 Not at all. Its very difficult indeed.<br><b>References : </b><br>Personal Experience. Not at all. Its very difficult indeed.
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]]> By: MrsSenate http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-823 MrsSenate Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:50:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-823 It will get better over time. But it will always hurt and there will always be things that come to make the pain worse.. like a remarry or something. You can go to counseling to help learn ways to better deal with the situation.<br><b>References : </b><br> It will get better over time. But it will always hurt and there will always be things that come to make the pain worse.. like a remarry or something. You can go to counseling to help learn ways to better deal with the situation.
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]]> By: PJ http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce/comment-page-1#comment-822 PJ Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:03:59 +0000 http://www.idontwanttotalktoex.com/easy-divorce/is-it-easy-to-deal-with-divorce#comment-822 Depends on how bad the marriage was - sometimes it is easier to deal with divorce than to keep living in the same horrible relationship. It will get better.<br><b>References : </b><br> Depends on how bad the marriage was – sometimes it is easier to deal with divorce than to keep living in the same horrible relationship.

It will get better.
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