My parents just got divorced last yr. Will it get better?
Divorces are very hard to deal with, depends on the people and the situations that have to be over come, but over time, things can get better when one works hard to leave the past behind and decide to have a better future
na its never easy
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ITS UP TO THEM TO MAKE IT BETTER..THEY HAVE TO GROW UP FIRST AND BE CIVIL
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DONT TAKE SIDES …STAY OUT OF IT
i def. isnt easy to deal with but youll cope eventually
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It’s never easy but yes it will get better
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no its isnt easy..give it time things get better eventually
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It will get easier but will it ever get better? No… Divorce hurts and it will get easier to deal with over time.
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Parents Divorced 9 years ago.
divorces are very hard to deal with, depends on the people and the situations that have to be over come, but over time, things can get better when one works hard to leave the past behind and decide to have a better future
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There is so many emotions in a divorce. Yes over time it will get better. First off they are going to have to (get over) the reason they personally think the marriage failed. The hurt feelings etc. Then they will be able to move on
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It all depends who you are and how you handle different things.
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Never easy kiddo.
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no there are a lot of processes you go through to solve it!
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I have been through this myself and provided that they can come to an agreement on things, it will eventually get easier.
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Personal Experience
no it hasnt mine have been for 10 years since i was 4 and it just gets harder for me… and especially since times are just hard now.. its difficult… but you will work through it =D im pretty sure
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Heck no! It’s not but you will eventually get over it and move on. I did and now my life is great! Just whatever you do, do not let your parents blame it on you. It’s not your fault.
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YES IF SHE DON’T GET YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR MONEY
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wow, when i was 8 my parents got a divorce, it wasnt easy, i dont think it eveer is..
there are ways to make it better but it just takes time..
it will get better, i thought the world was over ahaha, but really your life is really going to change, your gunna see and go through things you never thought you would have to.
i really hope things go good for you!
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Depends on how bad the marriage was – sometimes it is easier to deal with divorce than to keep living in the same horrible relationship.
It will get better.
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It will get better over time. But it will always hurt and there will always be things that come to make the pain worse.. like a remarry or something. You can go to counseling to help learn ways to better deal with the situation.
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Not at all. Its very difficult indeed.
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Personal Experience.
I’m so sorry for you. I was 13 yrs old when my parents divorced. I’m 39 yrs old now with kids of my own and sometimes it’s still hard. As long as they are nice to one another and don’t put you in the middle – it’ll be different but it’ll be fine. Be sure to share your feelings with them both. When you’re with one of them and they begin to tear down the other one (if they do this) tell them that you understand they are going through a hard time but you love them both and you’d rather they not talk negatively about the other one. It’s hard on everyone but it does get somewhat better.
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It might. it’s hardest tho when one of them finds someone else. u may think it’d b hard it that new person is mean, but it’s actually worse when they’re nice, because u want to hate them but u have no bttr reason to then u just want ur parents together again.
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My friends and sisters.
ya it hurts at first but after you just relax you kinda forget about it, you will never be the same but it is change for the better. and dont worry its not just you every one is getting devorced. my parents fought for 4 years until they got devorced, so be happy the fighting is over and move on.
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my stepmom and dad got a divorce and it was a long process both of them had get out the house because i was fore clousure
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Yes, it will. Its always a hard adjustment to make at first, but once things settle down they are often better than before. If the divorce was what both parents wanted, they will usually be happier apart and in turn they wont stress their children out so much by arguing all the time. And even if the parents are still angry at each other after the divorce, they will usually get over it in time and things will be more peaceful.
Take care and remember that the divorce has nothing to do with you or how your parents feel about you!
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It is almost never easy. It is going to depend on what kind of people your parents are. My first ex wife and I do not get along at all. She is a difficult person and in my opinion, she is still very angry that I left. She caused more than enough problems when it came to our child and my relationship. My second ex wife and I get along great. We talk a couple times a week and almost never disagree regarding anything with our child.
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It will get better in time if you surround yourself with loving people who can encourage you.
You may want to join a support group. Support groups are very beneficial…..I would especially recommend one from your church or one that has a good reputation. Do your research before joining any group.
Do not let your mind dwell on the negative or you will end up a wreck. I was molested when I was a child and it was painful, but I had to rise above the hurt and pain and not give up on myself. Being a religious person really helped me cope with the pain and hurt. Today, the hurt and pain is gone and I feel so good about myself. I am now helping other men and women who have been through what I went through.
Love your mother and father equally and pray for them.
Take care of yourself….don’t ever give up on yourself!
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